[build] update non-bom dependencies

[macfarla]

PR description

Update dependencies that don't come in via a bom

Not updated (unsure why but updating these introduces failures in checkLicense target):

    api 'org.springframework.security:spring-security-crypto:6.3.3'
    api 'org.springframework.security:spring-security-crypto:6.4.2'

    api 'org.wiremock:wiremock:3.9.1'
    api 'org.wiremock:wiremock:3.12.0'

Fixed Issue(s)

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[macfarla]

think the antlr upgrade is causing these test failures - need to look into it

> Task :besu:test

PrivacyOptionsTest > privacyTlsOptionsRequiresPrivacyToBeEnabledToml() FAILED
    java.lang.AssertionError at PrivacyOptionsTest.java:125

ProfilesTest > Valid Profile with overrides does not error > 1 - Profile Name override: dev FAILED
    java.lang.AssertionError at ProfilesTest.java:89

BesuCommandTest > callingWithNoBootnodesConfig() FAILED
    java.lang.AssertionError at BesuCommandTest.java:358

JsonRpcHttpOptionsTest > rpcHttpTlsRequiresRpcHttpEnabledToml() FAILED
    java.lang.AssertionError at JsonRpcHttpOptionsTest.java:253

[fab-10]

ANTLR is somewhat tricky to update, since some deps require a specific version, about the license issue, try updating the plugin first and if not working yet we need to check the details of the failure